BOOK RELEASE: A WITHERED FLOWER AND FOR MY MARRIAGE

The book, A Withered Flower that was first written in 2016 as a short story has now metamorphosed into a novella. I honestly did not envisage it to turn out how it turned out as the story decided to take wings and fly, and I was left to simply follow after it. There are people...

LIKE CHRIST LOVED (ebook)

Life throws at us a good deal of bricks to break us, but what we make of those bricks determines whether we build with it or we’re broken by it. Many people in the society are victims of domestic violence and their sour experience makes it difficult to either give or expect love. However, because...

MONEY SERIES || SPLITTING THE BILL?

I was scrolling through Instagram stories some months back and I saw a post where a lady was complaining that her partner always wants her to split the bill equally even though he has money. I wasn’t surprised though. People have different money mindset. This is a post for another week. If you’ve been following...

MONEY SERIES || SHOULD MONEY DEFINE YOUR MARRIAGE?

One very important tool in marriage is money, and it is also the elephant in the room. See, I’ll be foolish to say money is not necessary in marriage because it is and it has its place, but my question is should it define your relationship? Hear me out. This post is not for those...

MONEY SERIES || HIS MONEY. HER MONEY. OUR MONEY.

This is one topic I cannot stop talking about. I made a video about it some time ago. You can watch it here. Yes, I’ll keep talking about it because this issue keeps coming up. People have different perspective on this issue, and I’m not one to tell you how to spend your money or...

ENTERING A JOINT VENTURE WITH GOD

I was reading a book, Raising Kingdom Kids by Tony Evans, and I came across a line where he said, “Raising kingdom kids is a joint venture with God. It struck me and I paused to think on it which formed the idea for this post. As Christians, it is our desire that our children...

PRAYING WITH GALATIANS 5: 22-25

It was one night in May while going through the scripture for the day by the YouVersion app that I decided to use this passage to pray for my marriage, and felt I should share it on the blog. Before this time, I’ve written in my journal that the verses of this scripture will be...

HOW INTENTIONAL ARE YOU?

Marriage requires intentionality. This is one statement you should bind on your hand and your forehead and impress on your heart. It should be you mantra, your sleeping and waking thought, and something you should be committed to doing. Some people believe marriage is such a difficult task to perform, it gets boring over time,...

A HEART FOR SERVICE

In the month of April and May, one thing that came to my mind often was service. One day in April, my waking thought was love is service, and marriage is about serving each other. In May, there was a day I woke up praying that I receive grace to have a heart for service—serving...

KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES

I’ve always wanted to write this post since last year, if I can remember clearly, but I didn’t get to work on it until now. With social media comes the couple goals, parenting goals, and all the other goals you can think of. Truth is, social media is a highlight of the lives of people...

NO SHAME IN ASKING FOR HELP!

I have no silly ideas about being invincible. I don’t know what a superwoman is, I just know a woman who trusts God, loves God and is willing to follow God every step of the way. I have no problem whatsoever delegating things to people. –Ibukun Awosika. A lot of women who have families they...

WHEN CHILDREN ARE NOT FORTHCOMING

This is a reality so many couples are not willing to face, and society doesn’t even help matters in anyway. You hear things like in nine months’ time, we are coming to eat another rice. The self-appointed ‘pregnancy watchers’ begin to look out for baby bumps. And if conception delays further, some mothers begin to...