LIKE CHRIST LOVED (ebook)

Life throws at us a good deal of bricks to break us, but what we make of those bricks determines whether we build with it or we’re broken by it. Many people in the society are victims of domestic violence and their sour experience makes it difficult to either give or expect love. However, because...

4 WAYS YOU CAN CREATE FUN MEMORIES FOR YOUR KIDS

Some kids have memories, some don’t. Some kids had a proper childhood, others did not. Some kids had fun memories, some others couldn’t. Where do you belong? Wait, before you answer, this is not about you, but about what you want your kids to have. Now answer, what stories do you want your child(ren) to...

YOUR MARRIAGE: A FINISHED PRODUCT OR A WORK IN PROGRESS?

I was reading Pastor Kumuyi’s  “The Ideal Husband.” While talking about some reasons boredom creeps into the marriage, he made mention of the fact that many see their marriage as a finished product instead of a work in progress.  That phrase struck me, and yes it birthed this topic 😉. The reason many people get...

BREAKING THE NEGATIVE CYCLE

I was scrolling through my Facebook news feed when I saw a post by John Obidi on parenting. He said, “you think you’re okay the way you were trained by your parents, but the truth is if you check well, you’re not okay.” (paraphrased). Prior to him making this post, he shared the story of...

A CHILD’S SAFETY IN THE LOVE TRIANGLE

Have you ever seen a triangle? That’s too basic a question to ask, I know. We all, at one point in time in our lives have seen a triangle. Let me help you refresh you memory if per adventure the shape of a triangle has skipped your mind. The home ought to take the shape...

TEACHING YOUR CHILD(REN) TO SAVE

Money matter na serious matter o. There are many adults today who have poor spending habits. This thing did not just jump on them when they became adults. It had been with them right for their childhood. They have the spirit of earn it all, spend it all. What is saving? More will always come...

IF YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T HAVE IT, YOU WILL…

Does this sound like a threat? I think not so. It’s just a warning. An alarm bell to bring you at alert to what is necessary.  Some days ago, I went out and I made some observations. Overtime, I’ve heard ladies (I hear mostly ladies, I don’t l know if men do the same. Probably...

BOOK OF THE MONTH: THE IDEAL HUSBAND

The way I jumped for joy when I read this book ehn. You’ll think I’ve never read any book on marriage and I just discovered . The Ideal Husband is a book written by Pastor W.F Kumuyi. It has a ‘twin sister,’ “The Ideal Wife.” It just has to be ideal. For certain reasons, I...

IS LOVE ENOUGH TO SUSTAIN A MARRIAGE?

This is a question that has sparked debates amongst several people I have come in contact with. As our faces are different, so are our opinions and ideologies are different. If you can cast your mind back to our December for the singles where we brought some people on board to share their experiences with...

RETREAT. REFUEL. REKINDLE.

Certain battles were won by retreating – Eoin Coffer. If we seek solitary retreat, you will be more often refreshed – Lailah Gifty Akita. Hey, this is a marriage and family life blog, Kemi, so what has retreat go to do with this. Dear friend, calm down. Retreating can mainly be attached to the military...

WHAT ARE YOU DOING DIFFERENTLY THIS NEW YEAR

We know  New Years come with resolutions made by individuals because they want to do better than the past year. They wrote some resolutions last year, they were able to do some, while they flunked at others. Now, there’s a need to review it.  This post is not about making new year resolutions for your...