PARTNERING WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT TO RAISE GODLY CHILDREN

Everyone desires to have good and godly children who would give them no troubles. We want well behaved kids, who do just as we want them to. This is a good desire, but getting the result might be a little difficult considering the times we live in. Good news! We have a good partner who...

EVEN IF GOD LED, IT CAN FAIL

Yeah, you read it well, and it’s crystal clear. In fact, I’ll rewrite that title in bold letters, “EVEN IF GOD LED, IT CAN FAIL.” No, this is not me being pessimistic or me giving some negative blasphemous utterances. This is me telling you the plain truth and being realistic. I hope you keep reading...

MANAGING IN-LAW RELATIONSHIPS

Most of the problems pertaining to in-law issues start from the mind as a result of ingrained perceptions that the society has in general. It’s almost as though the mention of the word ‘in-law’ means something negative and it’s because people who have this perception ignorantly complicate matters for themselves. It starts from the little...

NAKED AND UNASHAMED

It’s a beautiful experience for couples to be able to connect to the point of being bare with each other without being ashamed. Without feeling insecure about looks and body parts. This connection or even disconnect is often first from the mind. It’s very human to feel so conscious about what we consider imperfect in...

WHEN OFFENCES ARISE

Just recently, there was a misunderstanding between some people which festered for about a week. They could not meet eye to eye and a blooming friendship was almost hitting the rocks until there was an intervention from a third party. It was at that point of settlement that a thought struck me, “how will I...

WE ARE HUMAN TOO

We are the category of people who work round the clock without break. From the dishes to the laundry, to house cleaning and babysitting, we labour, breaking our back each new day. Sadly, we are also the ones treated as lesser humans or slaves because we’ve taken the humble position of a domestic worker in...

YOU CAN BE SELFISH; IT’S ALLOWED

Don’t fret at this yet, just take a deep breath and keep reading. Yes, I’ll repeat it again, it is allowed for you to be selfish. You’ll understand it better as you read further. All things being equal as soon as you and your spouse gets married, the children start rolling in in and attentions...

MEET THEIR NEEDS

Do you know that the needs of your children go beyond the financial security you provide? Do you know that the basic needs of your kids should be met by you first? Do you also know that when your kids begin to get their needs met by a stranger, you’re setting yourself and your kids...

3 REASONS I BLOG ON MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE

Hey! This is me opening up a part of my life. This is subtle vulnerability. So, recently, about 3 months ago I started blogging on marriage and family life. I’m sure it left questions in the mind of some people and it was not strange to some. Some may wonder why I changed my focus...