HOW INTENTIONAL ARE YOU?

Marriage requires intentionality. This is one statement you should bind on your hand and your forehead and impress on your heart. It should be you mantra, your sleeping and waking thought, and something you should be committed to doing. Some people believe marriage is such a difficult task to perform, it gets boring over time,...

A HEART FOR SERVICE

In the month of April and May, one thing that came to my mind often was service. One day in April, my waking thought was love is service, and marriage is about serving each other. In May, there was a day I woke up praying that I receive grace to have a heart for service—serving...

KEEPING UP WITH THE JONESES

I’ve always wanted to write this post since last year, if I can remember clearly, but I didn’t get to work on it until now. With social media comes the couple goals, parenting goals, and all the other goals you can think of. Truth is, social media is a highlight of the lives of people...

NO SHAME IN ASKING FOR HELP!

I have no silly ideas about being invincible. I don’t know what a superwoman is, I just know a woman who trusts God, loves God and is willing to follow God every step of the way. I have no problem whatsoever delegating things to people. –Ibukun Awosika. A lot of women who have families they...

WHEN CHILDREN ARE NOT FORTHCOMING

This is a reality so many couples are not willing to face, and society doesn’t even help matters in anyway. You hear things like in nine months’ time, we are coming to eat another rice. The self-appointed ‘pregnancy watchers’ begin to look out for baby bumps. And if conception delays further, some mothers begin to...

THE 100-100 MARRIAGE

In one of my videos I shared 4 months ago, where I said that it takes two to make a marriage work, someone dropped a comment on my Facebook page, asking me what percentage the man holds and what percentage the woman holds. I did not reply his comment because from his previous comment, he...

A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT BUILT ON AUTOPILOT

You think that once you’ve been married for a couple of years, you’re already used to how marriage works and the remaining years can be going on autopilot. A big NO! Good marriages are not built by operating on autopilot. No matter how long you’ve plied the route of marriage and the terrains you’ve covered,...

FATHERHOOD SERIES || MAKE THEM YOUR PRIORITY BECAUSE THEY ARE

This is the last post in this series, and I’m excited for how far we have come! All the glory to God. In the order of things, your children come next after your wife. You should know that God comes first. READ THIS: GOD FIRST. YOUR SPOUSE SECOND. YOUR CHILDREN NEXT. OTHERS LAST. There are...

FATHERHOOD SERIES || WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A PROVIDER

The first thing that comes to mind when we hear that the man is the provider of the home is that he is the one who shoulders the responsibility of being the breadwinner and bringing home the bacon. But he is more than that. He is more than what society expects of him. There is...

FATHERHOOD SERIES || RAISING KINGDOM GENERALS

For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him (Genesis 18:19). In one of my videos, I spoke about the place...