WHILE I WAIT (A POEM)

While I wait, I’ll wait on God; To mould me to His image; For in Him I find wholeness; That I fit you perfectly.

THE MARRIED WOMAN’S LIFE IN 4 PHASES

It happened on a good day that I attended an event, and the speaker mentioned something about the life of a married woman being divide into 4 phases, which would be discussed later. This also tallied with a book I read earlier- Elizabeth George’s “A Woman After God’s Own Heart.” I got an understanding of...

AND PROVOKE NOT YOUR CHILDREN TO WRATH

“Tolani, will you keep your mouth and shut and listen to me? I am your mother and whatever I say is final. When you’re no more under my roof, you can choose to behave as you like.” “Mum, but try to understand me for once now! Everytime, you want me to follow your own ways...

NO TWO MARRIAGES ARE THE SAME

HOME X Husband X: Honey, please is the food ready? I’m damn hungry. Wife X: A little more time, love. I’ll be done in a jiffy. Help yourself with a glass of pineapple juice in the freezer. Husband X: All right, love. Just be fast. Husband X surfs the internet as he waits for wife...

I CAN’T CHANGE MY SPOUSE, BUT I CAN CHANGE ME

I would have loved to use a story to illustrate this point, but words fail me at this point. If all I can write in this blog post is just repeating the title over and over again, I’m sure it would pass across the message I seek to deliver. This is going to be a...

5 BOOKS ON MARRIAGE YOU MUST READ

No need for long stories to drive home the point of this post. Many people prepare for every other thing in life except for one very important thing which is marriage. When we have exams, we prepare for them. For sportsmen, they make adequate preparation before the day they have a match. Teachers prepare their...

PREPARING FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

Time and time again, I often here that the best time to prepare for anything you want to do in life is not the time you want to do it, but a long time before. Marriage is not an exception in this, as it is a fundamental aspect of our existence. Often times, singles are...

SUNLIGHT

“And who was that you were chatting with almost all night?” “And what has that got to do with you, or when did you start monitoring with whom I chat and where I sleep?” “I am your husband and I have every right to know. What was the source of your fantasy?” “I’m sorry o...

LOVE IS WORDS

Some days are like this. Empty, sullen and lonely. I knew I couldn’t wait to get home. To get into my room and shut myself down in tears. I simply walked like one in a haze, confused and uncertain at the result of the fifth pregnancy test. The warning of the doctor resounding in my...

THE BEST GIFT EVER

Last week got Kate filled with smiles. Beautiful Smiles. The Source- Kelvin. Being married for five years now, the couple have had times that proved the cliché “Love is not always enough.” Times of misunderstanding, one getting on the nerves of the other, each struggling to be the “Mr Right or Mrs Right”, through it...