WHY WOMEN?

Have you ever read articles that have titles like this “what women should,” “how women should,” “when women can,” and all those articles in those flavour. I know you must have. What spurred this post is when I saw another of these articles on one of the WhatsApp groups I belong too. It left me...

MEN, ARISE!

There was a discussion going on in a group I belong to and along the line, the argument drifted to the need for men to take their place in the home. There was an argument that women are the keepers at home and the major responsibility is on them. “A wise woman will build her...

IT’S NOT IN THE BUST AND BUM NOR THE BROAD CHEST AND SIX PACKS

Marriage is not all bust and bum for those that base their choice of a woman on that, neither is it about the physical build of the man for women who make marital decisions on that. That’s why you see marriages where the woman is well endowed and the man well Marriage is not all...

WATCH AND PRAY

“Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation…” (Mark 14: 38 ESV). Who made this statement? Jesus To whom was the statement made? To His disciples. On what occasion? Before His betrayal So, how does it apply to the subject matter of marriage? Read and learn! Christ’s admonition of watch and pray is...

WATCH YOUR WORDS

“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Proverbs 25:11 I was at a bus stop sometimes ago when I heard a woman throw words carelessly at her daughters. It was a curse word and I could see the impact it had on the girl because the girl’s face fell....

GOD FIRST. YOUR SPOUSE SECOND. YOUR CHILDREN NEXT. OTHERS LAST

I’ve written several posts related to this if I’m not mistaken. One of which is “Who Takes Priority?” Here.  This is not so much of a new subject on the blog, but I want you to hold a little longer and read to the end. In my previous posts, (you can be selfish), (who comes...

BOOK OF THE MONTH: THINGS I WISH I’D KNOWN BEFORE I GOT MARRIED

Gary Chapman is popular for his books on marriage. He’s the author of 5 Love Languages. I think I’ll write on it someday. His books have been a blessing to me and I’m sure to many as well. If you have never read any of his books, I think you have to acquaint yourself with...

6 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ME WITH REGARD TO MARRIAGE

Hi! Hi! For the sake of those who don’t know who I am, or better still who don’t know my name (everyone who reads my blog consistently and reads to the end should actually know my name, particularly because my name comes at the end of every post). Anyway, I’m Kemi, the brain behind Home...

SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE, DON’T LIVE IN LAGOS!

Married and living in Lagos? Don’t get scared just yet. I’m writing figuratively here. Lagos is a metropolitan city in Nigeria known for its ever bustling activities any time is the day. It never sleeps. It’s also known for its traffic (imagine spending 4 to 6 hours on a journey that could be less than...

WHO COMES FIRST?

Who comes first? Your kids? Your friends? Your job? Your siblings and parents? I don’t think so. If it is then there is a bit problem. We can’t over emphasize the point that your spouse comes first after God.