TRADITIONAL ROLES VS. MODERN REALITIES

How do roles and responsibilities affect the home? Men Have Breaking Point It’s not new to us that men are the breadwinners of their families, but when it gets to a point where all financial responsibilities are saddled on his shoulders with no one to help him bear in the burden, and he has a...

SHARON- EPISODE 3

Read episode 1 here Read episode 2 here I was discharged from the hospital and after two days, I mustered courage to send a text that I had put to bed. I didn’t tell him I had twins. Shortly after I sent the message, I received alert from him and a message followed after. “Congratulations...

SHARON- EPISODE 2

Read Episode 1 here He protested mildly, but I stopped his protest when I began stroking his hair. I won’t say I didn’t know what I was doing but I couldn’t help myself. Kola responded to my touch. He was vulnerable and one thing led to another and we saw ourselves partially naked and the...

SHARON- EPISODE 1

Going down memory lane, all I can see in my life is the overwhelming mercies of God. My name is Sharon and I’m the first born of my parents. I have three siblings; Sarah, Samson and Samuel. My mum is the women leader, while my dad is the pastor over our district church. They are...

help

ARE YOU ‘HELPING’ HER?

I’m an advocate for balance when it comes to discourse on issues bothering on men and women. However, for this post, I’ll be addressing only the men with no follow up post for ladies. The reason is because the weight of the issues to be trashed tilts more to the men.  It seems men have...

HOW MUCH OF MY PAST SHOULD S/HE KNOW?

You have been wondering for a while now if you should keep your past to yourself or share it with your intended. When you are starting out life and you intend to build a family together with someone, it is important to note that this relationship needs to be built on the foundation that comprises...

MARRIAGE: ENJOYED NOT ENDURED

Hi, How are you today? I am hoping that this meets you in good health and in peace of mind.   So, today I want us to talk about something very important. This is one issue that needs to be addressed once and for all. Grab your cup of tea or water, anyone you will...

PDA

HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE PDA IF YOU LOVE IT BUT YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T?

Hi, guys. So, in the previous post, we talked about public display of affection, how much is too much? You can choose to read that here if you’ve not read it. I bet you’ll enjoy it. Make sure you read. But, another question is “I love PDA, but my spouse doesn’t love it, how do...

PDA

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA): HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH?

I don’t know how many of you have seen couples (well, for this post my focus is on married couples because I don’t know what to call the ones those small boys and girls do) being all mushy or displaying love in the public for whosoever who wants to see. Well, I’ve seen. Most times,...

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (A STORY)

I regret marrying her in the first place, and I can’t imagine what peace I would have had, if I had heeded your advice and married jane instead.   Sorry that I didn’t even start the letter properly. This is how far frustration can lead a young newly weddded man to be.  Dear sir,   It is with displease and...