Couple

NO TWO MARRIAGES ARE THE SAME

HOME X Husband X: Honey, please is the food ready? I’m damn hungry. Wife X: A little more time, love. I’ll be done in a jiffy. Help yourself with a glass of pineapple juice in the freezer. Husband X: All right, love. Just be fast. Husband X surfs the internet as he waits for wife...

I CAN’T CHANGE MY SPOUSE, BUT I CAN CHANGE ME

I would have loved to use a story to illustrate this point, but words fail me at this point. If all I can write in this blog post is just repeating the title over and over again, I’m sure it would pass across the message I seek to deliver. This is going to be a...

EVEN IF GOD LED, IT CAN FAIL

Yeah, you read it well, and it’s crystal clear. In fact, I’ll rewrite that title in bold letters, “EVEN IF GOD LED, IT CAN FAIL.” No, this is not me being pessimistic or me giving some negative blasphemous utterances. This is me telling you the plain truth and being realistic. I hope you keep reading...

NAKED AND UNASHAMED

It’s a beautiful experience for couples to be able to connect to the point of being bare with each other without being ashamed. Without feeling insecure about looks and body parts. This connection or even disconnect is often first from the mind. It’s very human to feel so conscious about what we consider imperfect in...

YOU CAN BE SELFISH; IT’S ALLOWED

Don’t fret at this yet, just take a deep breath and keep reading. Yes, I’ll repeat it again, it is allowed for you to be selfish. You’ll understand it better as you read further. All things being equal as soon as you and your spouse gets married, the children start rolling in in and attentions...

WHEN ATTRACTION FADES

There are certain things that make a man attracted to a woman and vice versa. The main form of attraction this post will cover is the physical attraction that serves as a magnetic force between a man and a woman. It’s common knowledge that men are highly visual beings and they are moved by what...

OF FATE AND FAITH – EPISODE 3

Episode 1   Episode 2  On a cold harmattan morning, five years after adopting Adura, my husband and I were taking a hot bath when I felt dizzy. The next time I opened my eyes was in the hospital, Adura and my husband standing on either sides. Drips were passed through my veins and I could...

PHYSICAL INTIMACY

Marriage is 100% physical just as it is 100% spiritual, and physical intimacy is an important aspect of marriage. Asides other very relevant reasons people get married, what else do people get married for? To be intimate, physically! If marriage is just for companionship, then there’s no need for marriage as platonic friendships would do....

EMOTIONAL INTIMACY

The silence that spoke in the house of the Bensons was one that was too loud to be ignored. It spoke of the hate, the intolerance, the communication gap, the bickering that has stealthily crept into their home. Things were not this way five years back. Surprise gifts, unexpected pecks, kitchen dance, roarsome laughter to...