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marriage

THE MODEL MARRIAGE: CHRIST AND THE CHURCH

We see beautiful pictures of couples together and we go ‘couple goals,’ ‘I go love o,’ ‘this people just make marriage interesting,’ and all the other stuff we say to show that we actually appreciate the couple and if possible would want to pattern our marriage after theirs because of the love and affection they...

MARRIAGE: ENJOYED NOT ENDURED

Hi, How are you today? I am hoping that this meets you in good health and in peace of mind.   So, today I want us to talk about something very important. This is one issue that needs to be addressed once and for all. Grab your cup of tea or water, anyone you will...

PDA

HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE PDA IF YOU LOVE IT BUT YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T?

Hi, guys. So, in the previous post, we talked about public display of affection, how much is too much? You can choose to read that here if you’ve not read it. I bet you’ll enjoy it. Make sure you read. But, another question is “I love PDA, but my spouse doesn’t love it, how do...

PDA

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA): HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH?

I don’t know how many of you have seen couples (well, for this post my focus is on married couples because I don’t know what to call the ones those small boys and girls do) being all mushy or displaying love in the public for whosoever who wants to see. Well, I’ve seen. Most times,...

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (A STORY)

I regret marrying her in the first place, and I can’t imagine what peace I would have had, if I had heeded your advice and married jane instead.   Sorry that I didn’t even start the letter properly. This is how far frustration can lead a young newly weddded man to be.  Dear sir,   It is with displease and...

A SOFT ANSWER

Some few years ago, I had an issue with someone. On my part, my actions were not deliberate because I had a missing link with my facts. The other party involved was pissed off, and had lashed out at a third person also involved. I knew what I had gotten myself into, and I had...

naked

GET NAKED

And Adam and Eve were both naked and not ashamed. At the time God created man, they had no clothes on until sin set in and their eyes were opened to discover their nakedness. Prior to the discovery, they had fellowship with God in their ‘naked’ state and it was always beautiful. When they sinned...

revenge

REVENGE?

Revenge is a dish best served cold, so, why serve it at all?  Many times, we see partners trying to get back at each other for a wrong done by one party to the other. There is a thirst to get even with the offender. Really? As partners, are you supposed to fight each other...

NO SECRETS, PLEASE!

A relationship with secrets is one without trust. Trust is a vital aspect of every relationship. You can’t say you love someone and hold back certain things with the excuse that you do not want to lose them. It is an unfair thing to do to the one you say you love. Love isn’t selfish....

INTIMACY OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM

At the mention of intimacy, many minds go straight to the bedroom activities. Well, the reason is not farfetched. It seems to be the way our minds have been conditioned by our milieu. A comprehensive understanding of what intimacy is, and the different forms of intimacy will help us understand that intimacy goes beyond the...