Couple

ENJOYING YOUR HUSBAND’S BODY

I would have loved to see what my husband will write about this topic since I shared on the other one, “Enjoying Your Wife’s Body“. But he is very busy at the moment, so I’ll share from my perspective as a woman and infuse what I know at least some men may expect from their...

ENJOYING YOUR WIFE’S BODY

Ecclesiastes 9:9 helps us get a good understanding into how and why this is essential. “Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and...

BE LIKE CHILDREN

Late last year, I was in church and sitted rigt beside me were two children who were engaging in playful fisticuffs while prayers were going on. I separated them and held the girl in my arms while she was shedding tears I chose to play deaf to. I released her after a while and she...

PRAY TOGETHER AND PLAY TOGETHER!

Ebele UzoPeters said, “some marriages are not working not because the couples don’t pray together, but because they don’t play together.” Prayer is a very important tool in building a happy home. A family that prays together stays together is a popular quote used to justify the need of praying together as a couple and...

SEEK THE GOOD OF YOUR SPOUSE

I was at an event sometimes last year, and one of the speakers talked about how he was not willing to control his wife financially by allowing her to work. He went further to tell us how he brainstormed for her and taught up business ideas for her since she was not going to be...

DO YOU TURN YOUR SPOUSE OFF?

I observe a lot when it comes to anything that has to do with marriage though I’m not a naturally observant person. Many times I’ve seen men and women who go slack and allow the see finish syndrome finish their marriage and they allow every attraction fade. The law of diminishing returns sets in the...

A CAREER WOMAN WITH AN ESTRANGED HUSBAND?

This is sequel to my last post. You should read that, especially as a man. I have it (here) for you. Hey woman, yeah I’m a woman, wait, girl, no lady. Whatever, this post is for us. Yes, it’s our turn today. Dear young man, before you turn away, you can read it on your...

A BUSY MAN WITH A BORED WIFE?

It is when you’re forming to busy to tend your garden that weeds will grow and overshadow the tender plants you’ve cultivated— Kemi Esho. There are many women, scratch that. There are many wives who are married but lonely because they are married to men, sorry, husbands who are married to their jobs. Wait, before...

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE FUN

Why do people think after some years, marriage becomes boring and lacks the spark that was there before? Why? Just why?  I personally feel there is one key reason which is ROUTINE. After the honeymoon season and a few years of lovey dovey, couples tend to slip into the rut of routine. They begin to...

YOUR MARRIAGE: A FINISHED PRODUCT OR A WORK IN PROGRESS?

I was reading Pastor Kumuyi’s  “The Ideal Husband.” While talking about some reasons boredom creeps into the marriage, he made mention of the fact that many see their marriage as a finished product instead of a work in progress.  That phrase struck me, and yes it birthed this topic 😉. The reason many people get...