Couple

NO SECRETS, PLEASE!

A relationship with secrets is one without trust. Trust is a vital aspect of every relationship. You can’t say you love someone and hold back certain things with the excuse that you do not want to lose them. It is an unfair thing to do to the one you say you love. Love isn’t selfish....

INTIMACY OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM

At the mention of intimacy, many minds go straight to the bedroom activities. Well, the reason is not farfetched. It seems to be the way our minds have been conditioned by our milieu. A comprehensive understanding of what intimacy is, and the different forms of intimacy will help us understand that intimacy goes beyond the...

WHEN THE CONTAINER IS NOT AS IT USED TO BE, WHAT HAPPENS?

Some months ago, I bought a power bank. The mistake I made was that it was a white power bank I bought. Ordinarily, I’m always particular about some things. In this case, I was being particular about how it was going to get stained and scratched. I kinda regretted buying white because when it gets...

HONEYMOON: A PHASE OR FOREVER?

So, the wedding is over, finally! What next? Honeymoon? So, this term has a whole lot of history you may not know about that you need to go and read up, but this article seeks to focus on the term, “the honeymoon period”. In reading this, understand that this article is not saying you should not...

NO TWO MARRIAGES ARE THE SAME

HOME X Husband X: Honey, please is the food ready? I’m damn hungry. Wife X: A little more time, love. I’ll be done in a jiffy. Help yourself with a glass of pineapple juice in the freezer. Husband X: All right, love. Just be fast. Husband X surfs the internet as he waits for wife...

I CAN’T CHANGE MY SPOUSE, BUT I CAN CHANGE ME

I would have loved to use a story to illustrate this point, but words fail me at this point. If all I can write in this blog post is just repeating the title over and over again, I’m sure it would pass across the message I seek to deliver. This is going to be a...

EVEN IF GOD LED, IT CAN FAIL

Yeah, you read it well, and it’s crystal clear. In fact, I’ll rewrite that title in bold letters, “EVEN IF GOD LED, IT CAN FAIL.” No, this is not me being pessimistic or me giving some negative blasphemous utterances. This is me telling you the plain truth and being realistic. I hope you keep reading...

NAKED AND UNASHAMED

It’s a beautiful experience for couples to be able to connect to the point of being bare with each other without being ashamed. Without feeling insecure about looks and body parts. This connection or even disconnect is often first from the mind. It’s very human to feel so conscious about what we consider imperfect in...

YOU CAN BE SELFISH; IT’S ALLOWED

Don’t fret at this yet, just take a deep breath and keep reading. Yes, I’ll repeat it again, it is allowed for you to be selfish. You’ll understand it better as you read further. All things being equal as soon as you and your spouse gets married, the children start rolling in in and attentions...