Couple

DO YOU TURN YOUR SPOUSE OFF?

I observe a lot when it comes to anything that has to do with marriage though I’m not a naturally observant person. Many times I’ve seen men and women who go slack and allow the see finish syndrome finish their marriage and they allow every attraction fade. The law of diminishing returns sets in the...

A CAREER WOMAN WITH AN ESTRANGED HUSBAND?

This is sequel to my last post. You should read that, especially as a man. I have it (here) for you. Hey woman, yeah I’m a woman, wait, girl, no lady. Whatever, this post is for us. Yes, it’s our turn today. Dear young man, before you turn away, you can read it on your...

A BUSY MAN WITH A BORED WIFE?

It is when you’re forming to busy to tend your garden that weeds will grow and overshadow the tender plants you’ve cultivated— Kemi Esho. There are many women, scratch that. There are many wives who are married but lonely because they are married to men, sorry, husbands who are married to their jobs. Wait, before...

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE FUN

Why do people think after some years, marriage becomes boring and lacks the spark that was there before? Why? Just why?  I personally feel there is one key reason which is ROUTINE. After the honeymoon season and a few years of lovey dovey, couples tend to slip into the rut of routine. They begin to...

YOUR MARRIAGE: A FINISHED PRODUCT OR A WORK IN PROGRESS?

I was reading Pastor Kumuyi’s  “The Ideal Husband.” While talking about some reasons boredom creeps into the marriage, he made mention of the fact that many see their marriage as a finished product instead of a work in progress.  That phrase struck me, and yes it birthed this topic 😉. The reason many people get...

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THE MODEL MARRIAGE: CHRIST AND THE CHURCH

We see beautiful pictures of couples together and we go ‘couple goals,’ ‘I go love o,’ ‘this people just make marriage interesting,’ and all the other stuff we say to show that we actually appreciate the couple and if possible would want to pattern our marriage after theirs because of the love and affection they...

MARRIAGE: ENJOYED NOT ENDURED

Hi, How are you today? I am hoping that this meets you in good health and in peace of mind.   So, today I want us to talk about something very important. This is one issue that needs to be addressed once and for all. Grab your cup of tea or water, anyone you will...

PDA

HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE PDA IF YOU LOVE IT BUT YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T?

Hi, guys. So, in the previous post, we talked about public display of affection, how much is too much? You can choose to read that here if you’ve not read it. I bet you’ll enjoy it. Make sure you read. But, another question is “I love PDA, but my spouse doesn’t love it, how do...

PDA

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA): HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH?

I don’t know how many of you have seen couples (well, for this post my focus is on married couples because I don’t know what to call the ones those small boys and girls do) being all mushy or displaying love in the public for whosoever who wants to see. Well, I’ve seen. Most times,...

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (A STORY)

I regret marrying her in the first place, and I can’t imagine what peace I would have had, if I had heeded your advice and married jane instead.   Sorry that I didn’t even start the letter properly. This is how far frustration can lead a young newly weddded man to be.  Dear sir,   It is with displease and...