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PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (A STORY)

I regret marrying her in the first place, and I can’t imagine what peace I would have had, if I had heeded your advice and married jane instead.   Sorry that I didn’t even start the letter properly. This is how far frustration can lead a young newly weddded man to be.  Dear sir,   It is with displease and...

A SOFT ANSWER

Some few years ago, I had an issue with someone. On my part, my actions were not deliberate because I had a missing link with my facts. The other party involved was pissed off, and had lashed out at a third person also involved. I knew what I had gotten myself into, and I had...

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GET NAKED

And Adam and Eve were both naked and not ashamed. At the time God created man, they had no clothes on until sin set in and their eyes were opened to discover their nakedness. Prior to the discovery, they had fellowship with God in their ‘naked’ state and it was always beautiful. When they sinned...

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REVENGE?

Revenge is a dish best served cold, so, why serve it at all?  Many times, we see partners trying to get back at each other for a wrong done by one party to the other. There is a thirst to get even with the offender. Really? As partners, are you supposed to fight each other...

NO SECRETS, PLEASE!

A relationship with secrets is one without trust. Trust is a vital aspect of every relationship. You can’t say you love someone and hold back certain things with the excuse that you do not want to lose them. It is an unfair thing to do to the one you say you love. Love isn’t selfish....

INTIMACY OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM

At the mention of intimacy, many minds go straight to the bedroom activities. Well, the reason is not farfetched. It seems to be the way our minds have been conditioned by our milieu. A comprehensive understanding of what intimacy is, and the different forms of intimacy will help us understand that intimacy goes beyond the...

WHEN THE CONTAINER IS NOT AS IT USED TO BE, WHAT HAPPENS?

Some months ago, I bought a power bank. The mistake I made was that it was a white power bank I bought. Ordinarily, I’m always particular about some things. In this case, I was being particular about how it was going to get stained and scratched. I kinda regretted buying white because when it gets...

HONEYMOON: A PHASE OR FOREVER?

So, the wedding is over, finally! What next? Honeymoon? So, this term has a whole lot of history you may not know about that you need to go and read up, but this article seeks to focus on the term, “the honeymoon period”. In reading this, understand that this article is not saying you should not...

NO TWO MARRIAGES ARE THE SAME

HOME X Husband X: Honey, please is the food ready? I’m damn hungry. Wife X: A little more time, love. I’ll be done in a jiffy. Help yourself with a glass of pineapple juice in the freezer. Husband X: All right, love. Just be fast. Husband X surfs the internet as he waits for wife...

I CAN’T CHANGE MY SPOUSE, BUT I CAN CHANGE ME

I would have loved to use a story to illustrate this point, but words fail me at this point. If all I can write in this blog post is just repeating the title over and over again, I’m sure it would pass across the message I seek to deliver. This is going to be a...