Parenting

4 WAYS YOU CAN CREATE FUN MEMORIES FOR YOUR KIDS

Some kids have memories, some don’t. Some kids had a proper childhood, others did not. Some kids had fun memories, some others couldn’t. Where do you belong? Wait, before you answer, this is not about you, but about what you want your kids to have. Now answer, what stories do you want your child(ren) to...

BREAKING THE NEGATIVE CYCLE

I was scrolling through my Facebook news feed when I saw a post by John Obidi on parenting. He said, “you think you’re okay the way you were trained by your parents, but the truth is if you check well, you’re not okay.” (paraphrased). Prior to him making this post, he shared the story of...

A CHILD’S SAFETY IN THE LOVE TRIANGLE

Have you ever seen a triangle? That’s too basic a question to ask, I know. We all, at one point in time in our lives have seen a triangle. Let me help you refresh you memory if per adventure the shape of a triangle has skipped your mind. The home ought to take the shape...

TEACHING YOUR CHILD(REN) TO SAVE

Money matter na serious matter o. There are many adults today who have poor spending habits. This thing did not just jump on them when they became adults. It had been with them right for their childhood. They have the spirit of earn it all, spend it all. What is saving? More will always come...

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WINNING WITH YOUR CHILD

I think it gets to a point when some parents just lose it all in terms of having the heart of their children. I don’t want to believe I’m the only one that has this thinking. The kids are all grown up and there is an emotional detachment from their parents in a way they...

WHEN YOUR PARENTS CHOOSE YOUR COURSE OF STUDY

I never really knew what I was going into when I chose the course I find myself studying. I was merely fascinated by the wig and gown, not until I got into the real stuff, and my fascination disippated. I’m not dreaming of practice, and it is something I’ve made known to those who care...

SPARE THE ROD, SPOIL THE CHILD

I’m sure you’ve been a victim of slaps, strokes, whips and whatever your parents must have deemed fit to be a good form of discipline as a child. To the parents, I’m sure you might have also fallen victim of doing this to your kids, after all, the same thing was done to you, so,...

TRAIN YOUR CHILD

Many years back, my mum made it compulsory to learn certain promises in the Bible. One I can remember vividly was when she made us copy out promises from Psalm 119. At that time, it seemed like torture to my siblings and I, but now, I enjoy its benefits. The Bible makes us understand that...

AND PROVOKE NOT YOUR CHILDREN TO WRATH

“Tolani, will you keep your mouth and shut and listen to me? I am your mother and whatever I say is final. When you’re no more under my roof, you can choose to behave as you like.” “Mum, but try to understand me for once now! Everytime, you want me to follow your own ways...

PARTNERING WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT TO RAISE GODLY CHILDREN

Everyone desires to have good and godly children who would give them no troubles. We want well behaved kids, who do just as we want them to. This is a good desire, but getting the result might be a little difficult considering the times we live in. Good news! We have a good partner who...