Singles

THE CAKE AND THE ICING

Earlier this month, I made a post on the qualities I want in a husband. You can check that out here if you wish. I mentioned some things in the post which I could not elaborate on because it will be a deviation so I made mention of it that if there’s anyone interested in...

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QUALITIES I WANT IN A HUSBAND

If you notice, I said qualities I want in a husband, not in a man. This is because the Bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing. Inevitably, it is definitely a husband that finds a wife. I don’t know if you get my point. Earlier this year, I was traveling to...

GETTING YOUR PROPOSAL RIGHT

I chuckled as soon as I set out to write on this topic. I am certain that we have seen several kinds of proposals from something as simple as, “Marry, me” said over a lunch date, to, “Thus saith the Lord, Sister Bimpe….” to very creative proposals like asking from the sky or inscriptions on...

WHILE I WAIT (A POEM)

While I wait, I’ll wait on God; To mould me to His image; For in Him I find wholeness; That I fit you perfectly.

WHEN WILL I SAY ‘I DO’?

“Tola, I’ve found husband for you o, since you’ve refused to bring one home”, mama Tola shouted from the kitchen in the typical African mother’s way. Tola was already fed up of her mother’s constant nagging and today wasn’t a good day for her. Ignoring the old woman, she plugged her ears with her earpiece...

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“I DO”: DEFINING THE MARRIAGE VOWS

“Tola, do you take Toba as your lawfully wedded husband?” The minister asked with a deep baritone voice. “Yes, I do” Tola responded with all joy. “Then repeat after me. I, Tola, take you, Toba to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer...