marriage

THE MODEL MARRIAGE: CHRIST AND THE CHURCH

We see beautiful pictures of couples together and we go ‘couple goals,’ ‘I go love o,’ ‘this people just make marriage interesting,’ and all the other stuff we say to show that we actually appreciate the couple and if possible would want to pattern our marriage after theirs because of the love and affection they...

PDA

HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE PDA IF YOU LOVE IT BUT YOUR SPOUSE DOESN’T?

Hi, guys. So, in the previous post, we talked about public display of affection, how much is too much? You can choose to read that here if you’ve not read it. I bet you’ll enjoy it. Make sure you read. But, another question is “I love PDA, but my spouse doesn’t love it, how do...

PDA

PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA): HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH?

I don’t know how many of you have seen couples (well, for this post my focus is on married couples because I don’t know what to call the ones those small boys and girls do) being all mushy or displaying love in the public for whosoever who wants to see. Well, I’ve seen. Most times,...

intimacy

NURTURING INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE

So, I thought to share one fun fact with you today which is that I am certain that one statement that I make repeatedly is that, “A healthy marriage doesn’t happen by itself.” Every aspect of the marriage needs to be nurtured, intimacy included.   A lot of times, people assume that it’s just supposed...

INTIMACY OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM

At the mention of intimacy, many minds go straight to the bedroom activities. Well, the reason is not farfetched. It seems to be the way our minds have been conditioned by our milieu. A comprehensive understanding of what intimacy is, and the different forms of intimacy will help us understand that intimacy goes beyond the...

WHEN OFFENCES ARISE

Just recently, there was a misunderstanding between some people which festered for about a week. They could not meet eye to eye and a blooming friendship was almost hitting the rocks until there was an intervention from a third party. It was at that point of settlement that a thought struck me, “how will I...

leave to cleave

LEAVE TO CLEAVE

I never knew I had married a mama’s boy, a big old baby who wants to remain latched to mummy’s bosom than to have an independent life of his own. I can’t imagine spending the rest of my married life receiving orders from my mother in-law and watch her control how I run my home....